“中山 留美” pronounced as “Nakayama Rumi”, is my Japanese name, while “留美” is originally pronouced as “Rubi” (while most of you prefer to write this as “Ruby“). I am an introvert (phlegmatic as dominant, with sub-dominant ‘melancholic’) person, with the personalities are as listed below.
Phlegmatic at work …
Teaches, patient, diplomatic, mentors, counsels, good with people, administrative, mediation, paced, reliable, loyal, steady, stable, follows through, status quo, predictable, politically correct, competent.
Phlegmatic Negative Attributes…
Abstract, idealistic, shy, hides emotions, avoids conflict, fearful unenthusiastic, quite will of iron, judges, sarcastic, selfish, low energy passive, dislikes change, distant, skeptical, undemonstrative, paranoid, self deprecating, impractical, slow to act, lazy.
Phlegmatic Person Wants Others To …
Stay calm, be courteous, seek meaning, trust them, spend time with them, not rush time, give advanced warning of change, give them time to reflect, respect their boundaries, relate authentically, allow them to get used of things.
Well-known Phlegmatic…
Gandhi, Eleanor Roosevelt, Albert Schweitzer, Carl Rogers, Margaret Mead, Charles Dickens
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My friend said,
‘No wonder you wrote more than talked. See how many writers listed in the well-known phlegmatic above? Almost ALL of them!’
And it’s indeniable that 85% of the result is accurate about me, from my point of view.
- source : Personality Quiz